Let me set a scene: Bangkok, two temples, heat pressing down like it has a personal issue with you, and me standing at a pier looking like a fully functioning adult with money in my hand and absolutely no way to use it. Wat Pho (or Wat Phra Chetuphon Wimon Mangkhalaram Rajwaramahawihan) had gone smoothly. Wat Arun (Ratchawararam Ratchawaramahawihan) too. Tickets? Easy. Entry? No drama. Then came the tiny little boat back, the kind of thing that should take ten seconds to sort out, and suddenly I was in the standoff of the day: I had cash, they needed cash, and somehow those two facts were not enough to get two people across the water.
The 20 baht problem
The whole thing was ridiculous in that very specific travel way where the problem is tiny, but the irritation lands big. I had a 1000 baht note. The ride was 10 baht per person. Two people. Twenty baht total. In theory, no issue. I had money. Real money. Enough money. But at that hour, for that amount, my 1000 baht might as well have been a framed decoration. And I got it, honestly. From their side, breaking a large note for a 10 baht ferry ride is annoying at best and impossible at worst. I’ve worked customer service. I know the pain. But that doesn’t change the absurdity of standing there as a tourist thinking, take my damn money, I am actively trying to leave.
“Small lady bag” archaeology
And then came the elegant part: me elbow-deep in my so-called small lady bag, digging for coins like my survival depended on loose change and female rage. This is the scam of the “small bag,” by the way. It looks compact and innocent. In reality, it’s a soft-sided cave full of receipts, lip balm, tissues, mysterious crumbs, and everything except the exact thing you need under pressure. So there I was, muttering under my breath at the pier, excavating layer after layer while trying not to hold up the line and trying very hard not to become the idiot tourist defeated by 20 baht. Did I find the change? Yes. Did the experience make me reflective? Also yes. But first, it made me aware that a woman can fit half her life into one bag and still not have the right coin when the universe decides to be funny.
Money is only useful in the the right denominations
What got stuck in my head later was not the inconvenience itself, but how quickly it exposed what I’m used to. Back home, especially in the Nordics, paying barely registers as an event anymore. You tap your card for coffee, groceries, transport, even a public bathroom, and move on without thinking twice. Money has become almost invisible — clean, fast, frictionless. So the second a place asks for the right coins, the right note, or a QR system you don’t use, you realize something mildly humbling: having money is not always enough. It has to show up in the right denominations. And that tiny ferry drama made it painfully obvious how spoiled we are by systems built to remove every last second of inconvenience.
Final thoughts
Back in the hotel room, that little ferry moment stayed in my head longer than it deserved. Not because it ruined anything — it didn’t — but because it exposed how deeply I’m trained by convenience. At home, I don’t carry cash. I don’t need to. The card works, the phone works, the system works, and after a while you stop seeing that as a luxury and start treating it like the natural order of things. Then travel comes along and reminds you that “having money” and “being able to pay” are not always the same thing. Sometimes the gap between those two is just 20 baht, one large note, and a pier worker who cannot magically turn your problem into small change. So no, I don’t think the lesson is that one system is better and the other is worse. It’s just a sharp little reminder that convenience makes us forget how local our habits really are. And the second the world stops speaking your version of easy, you notice exactly how dependent you’ve become on it.
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